How To Pick Up Women
Many a man has has spotted an attractive girl and thought to himself, “Wow, she’s got more legs than a bucket full of chicken.”
Next, he went in for the kill. But a few seconds later, he went belly up as she flattened his ego into a pancake.
He, then, walked away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.
Maybe you’ve had a similar experience? I’ve had dozens. I used to be so petrified to pick up women that I thought I had the words “I’m the world’s biggest loser” push pinned to my forehead.
If you never learned how to pick up women, then doing so can seem more challenging than climbing Mt. Everest.
Here’s the thing: more often than not, men pick up women for their beauty alone – and women are well aware of this. They can entrap a man without making a single peep.
Half the time, even if you find them as attractive as a dingle berry , they’ll still think you’re interested.
But this, my friend, is about to change…
Watching most men approach an attractive woman is as depressing as a costume ball for demented children. The woman is like a pro fisherman with top notch bait and the guy is like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped up, fried, and eaten for dinner.
Even if he puts up a fight, it’s game over – she already hooked him (although, if she’s physically attracted to him, there’s a glimmer of hope).
Like other men, I’m also a fish – but a Parana jacked up on steroids. The moment they think they’ve hooked me in, I cast my pole and tempt them with irresistible bait.
They start chomping away at the bait and, then, bam – they’re on my hook and I’m reeling them in.
Here’s an example. When at a nightclub or bar, my eyes rove around looking for a high foot traffic area – near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio, for example. When a girl struts past me I’ll bump her with my elbow.
And then in an overdramatic and offended tone I’ll utter: “Ow…you hurt me.”
Almost always , the woman will put her paw on my shoulder and say, “Oh my… I’m so sorry.”
I’ll quip back with, “Before you can touch me, you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.
This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.
When the average man’s groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.
She’s got them on her emotional hook (and she’s well aware of it.) Any effort on their part to win her over is a bad sign she’s reeled them in even closer.
With my example above, however, I’m doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I’m making her prove herself to me. I’m the sought after Prize, not her.
In every male/female interaction only one person can be the Prize at a given time. Two people can’t simultaneously chase each other.
There are exceptions but, generally speaking, you want the woman chasing you as a Prize she is trying to win over.
Josh Lubens, a world renowned relationship coach, writes under the pseudonym Swinggcat and has taught men how to pick up women for over ten years. At his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.
